Sunday, January 5, 2025

How come we say “how come”?

"How Come You Don't Call Me?" is a classic Prince song, but why do we say "how come" and what does this word pairing mean?
Word smarts wordmark

Daily edition

Grammar

How come we say "how come"?

"How Come You Don't Call Me?" is a classic Prince song, but why do we say "how come" and what does this word pairing mean?

Adult man with puzzled look on his face

T he world is full of peculiar pairings that just seem to work perfectly. Take chicken and waffles — how is it that two diametrically opposed foods taste so amazing together? There are equally odd pairings in the world of linguistics, too. Consider the words "how" and "come." At first glance, "how come" seems like an incomplete sentence, but it's actually acceptable as is. So, how come we say "how come"? Let's take a closer look.

According to the Oxford English Dictionary (OED), the phrase "how come" dates to at least 1844, with an example appearing in Ladies' National Magazine: "'Ha, ha, ha!' roared Hector, 'you larf at me, eh, fer being frighten' at panter, tort I'd fix you fer um—I say, gal, how come you jump so? what you tort twas, eh?" To get the full understanding of that example, try reading it aloud — many of the words are spelled phonetically, likely for effect. But "how come" is clear; in the example and now, it's mainly used in place of the word "why," as in, "Why/how did it come about?" Grammatically, the subject and verb of "How come?" are implied, which makes it a functionally complete sentence, albeit in a very casual tone.

This begs the question: Why use "how come" instead of "why," given that "why" is far more common and easily understood (and shorter)? The reason mainly has to do with encouraging a more relaxed and conversational tone. "Why" is blunt, and the person on the receiving end of the question may feel like they're being lectured. Saying "how come" may invite a bit of further conversation and encourage a lighthearted dialogue.

Here's an example: The question "Why did you call me?" could come across as very pointed and perhaps a bit angry in tone. As an alternative, "How come you called me?" is less of an inherently antagonistic question, and may make the other person feel more at ease.

Continue reading

Right arrow

Advertisers help keep Word Smarts free

Person in lotus position emoji

Person in Lotus Position

Meaning: Shows a person sitting cross-legged in a meditation or yoga pose, representing mindfulness and wellness.


Evolution: This emoji supports gender variations (🧘‍♀️ and 🧘‍♂️) and skin tones, and it reflects the growing global interest in meditation and yoga practices.


Usage: [Wellness app notification:] Time for your daily meditation 🧘‍♀️ Find your calm

We All Shine On by Elliot Mintz

We All Shine on: John, Yoko, and Me

By Elliot Mintz

"Radio personality Mintz debuts with a vivid account of the decade he spent as John Lennon and Yoko Ono's confidante, fixer, and friend. … It's a captivating and intimate window into the complicated lives of one of rock's most legendary couples."

Publishers Weekly review

Shop now

We independently evaluate all recommended products and services. If you click on links we provide, we may receive compensation.

Surname highlighted in dictionary
Language Star divider 3 MIN READ Star divider
Heart Icon 4 LIKES

What Are the Most Popular Last Names Around the World?

While names like Skywalker and Targaryen may reign supreme in fiction, the most prevalent surnames globally are far more grounded, with millions sharing common last names like Smith, Wang, and Nguyen.

Continue reading

Right arrow

Advertisers help keep Word Smarts free

A World of Words

Subscribe

Powered by Optimism
1550 Larimer Street, Suite 431, Denver, CO 80202
Contact Us Privacy Policy Terms of Use Do Not Sell My Information

No comments:

Post a Comment